The superior man has nine wishes. - In seeing, he wishes to see clearly. - In hearing, he wishes to hear distinctly. - In his expression, he wishes to be warm. - In his appearance, he wishes to be respectful. - In his speech, he wishes to be sincere. - In handling affairs, he wishes to be serious. - When in doubt, he wishes to ask. - When he is angry, he wishes to think of the resultant difficulties. - And when he sees an opportunity for gain, he wishes to think of righteousness.